Monday, 7 March 2016

LIFE AND EXPECTATIONS......

Every living creature in the world always have a sign of "EXPECTATIONS" some of the another way in its life...... We all have expectations in our lives........What we want out of life,what we want in coming future and who we want  to become..... I have always believed in my life that one of the keys to happiness lies within the way of expecting and managing the emotions in your expectations of people and circumstances.... Its the fact and also a truth in our life that:
 " IF U DO NOT HAVE  EXPECTATIONS YOU CAN NEVER BE DISAPPOINTED".
Often in our life when we move in someone's life or when we move into relationship , the first thing we do is we start expecting from our partner....But it isn't necessary that you partner will fulfill all your wishes.... Remember;
"DON'T COUNT YOUR CHICKENS BEFORE THEY HATCH".......
Having realistic expectations will allow you to accept the flaws each person has.We need to learn how to take responsibility for our own lives and our own decisions before we can expect others to do the same in our life...... Find a partner who will understand you,will accept as you are and will never make you feel that you are alone in the race of "LIFE"
"THERE ARE TWO WAYS TO BE HAPPY; IMPROVE YOUR REALITY OR LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS"..........
One of the biggest circumstance we face in life is learning to accept people for who they truly are....Once you realize that your expectations cannot change the people, better get off yourselves....Problem will arise when your expectations do not get materialized.....
"GIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS AND ACCEPT WITHOUT RESERVATIONS"
An unfortunate hazard of high expectations in certain circumstances is that we prevent ourselves from enjoying the experience altogether. If you feel this way in your life, you need to readjust your expectations. Do not expect things out of situations, just go into them with an open mind. This will allow you to fully immerse yourself and live a happy life in the coming future......
"EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED, BELIEVE IN THE UNBELIEVABLE AND ACHIEVE THE UNACHIEVABLE  "
Such disappointment can lead to several outcomes, including trying to get this person to change and an increased anger toward the person who is causing the disappointment.This becomes problematic since the fault lies with you for putting such pressure on the person......
"EXPECTATIONS IS THE ROOT OF HEARTACHE".....
Expect what you can,  be aware of the fact that sometimes life throws you a curve ball that doesn't mean you should get afraid of the present situations.... Stand there and face the ball , so that you can make a home run out of it.......just remember  not to make these aspirations so high that they are impractical or unreachable.......

Acceptance is only a thing need to be actively worked for...Things do not work always as we have planned...Its beneficial to realize that how life works rather than becoming frustrated at situations rather than getting disappointed......
"THE BEST PERSON TO EXPECT IS OURSELVES ".......




CELL TO LIFE

"CELL" the smallest unit of life and often called as 'BUILDING BLOCKS OF LIFE'....
All we came into existence from level zero to life.....Similarly our life started from a single unit where we were left in the world of competitions where we were not knowing what is coming in the future...We always had a question in our life will "I ME AND MYSELF" be successful? !!!!
AS the life we faced in the future all that we became a "TISSUE"...A living tissue is made from a group of cells with a similar structure and function which all work together to do a particular job......we were structured with all the up downs and struggle of life there was not a single hope or a ray of light of success that time we faced......Remember " THE SWEETEST VICTORY IS THE ONE THAT'S MOST DIFFICULT"!!!!!
The one that requires you to reach down deep inside ....to fight and declare a war at your own life... Society doesn’t reward defeat and you won’t find many failures listed or documented in history books.....
There are only few of those failures that become


steppingstones to later success...Like Such is the case with Thomas Edison... whose greatest invention gave rise to the "light bulb", which repeatedly took him 1,000 tries before he developed a successful prototype. Now we may be having a question? “How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?” a reporter asked Edison...... He responded “I didn’t fail 1,000 times,”..........The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps....after so many failures only we can smell success.... No one was born "LEGEND"....u cant spell 'LEGENDARY" without failures....That's like group of failures create a "TISSUE"............
As we move further and further there comes a stage where we start climbing up the steps towards success leaving all the failures behind..Similarly,an organ is made from a group of different tissues....which all work together to do a particular job........
Thus, climbing up and up makes the way short towards success.... while climbing up some people start experiencing success and thus gets easily carried away by living in a shot form happiness and matter of success where yet the journey has started..... and there are also people who start losing hopes, as the journey is hard as mentioned above we should never lose hope in yourself... Remember " SUCCESS ISN'T ALWAYS ABOUT GREATNESS...IT'S ABOUT CONSISTENCY.. CONSISTENT HARDWORK GAINS SUCCESS....GREATNESS WILL COME AUTOMATICALLY"...............
The science of life should be known and experienced too...according to life moving and becoming successful , an organ system is made from formations of different organs..which all work together.. Likewise becoming successful doesn't end up your life and it also does't mean you would stop putting efforts....
" BIRD EATS ANTS.. BUT WHEN BIRD DIES ANT EATS THE BIRD"... time and circumstances of people can change anytime..... always be grounded and never get flowed away in the stream of happiness... Always find "WHAT'S NEXT"... Thus life will be simplified....
Always live for other's and other's happiness.... "RUN BEHIND EXCELLENCE...SUCCESS WILL RUN BEHIND YOU"........
LIVE  LIFE THE FULLEST...
( PEACE, LOVE , UNITY , RESPECT )