Monday, 7 March 2016

LIFE AND EXPECTATIONS......

Every living creature in the world always have a sign of "EXPECTATIONS" some of the another way in its life...... We all have expectations in our lives........What we want out of life,what we want in coming future and who we want  to become..... I have always believed in my life that one of the keys to happiness lies within the way of expecting and managing the emotions in your expectations of people and circumstances.... Its the fact and also a truth in our life that:
 " IF U DO NOT HAVE  EXPECTATIONS YOU CAN NEVER BE DISAPPOINTED".
Often in our life when we move in someone's life or when we move into relationship , the first thing we do is we start expecting from our partner....But it isn't necessary that you partner will fulfill all your wishes.... Remember;
"DON'T COUNT YOUR CHICKENS BEFORE THEY HATCH".......
Having realistic expectations will allow you to accept the flaws each person has.We need to learn how to take responsibility for our own lives and our own decisions before we can expect others to do the same in our life...... Find a partner who will understand you,will accept as you are and will never make you feel that you are alone in the race of "LIFE"
"THERE ARE TWO WAYS TO BE HAPPY; IMPROVE YOUR REALITY OR LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS"..........
One of the biggest circumstance we face in life is learning to accept people for who they truly are....Once you realize that your expectations cannot change the people, better get off yourselves....Problem will arise when your expectations do not get materialized.....
"GIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS AND ACCEPT WITHOUT RESERVATIONS"
An unfortunate hazard of high expectations in certain circumstances is that we prevent ourselves from enjoying the experience altogether. If you feel this way in your life, you need to readjust your expectations. Do not expect things out of situations, just go into them with an open mind. This will allow you to fully immerse yourself and live a happy life in the coming future......
"EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED, BELIEVE IN THE UNBELIEVABLE AND ACHIEVE THE UNACHIEVABLE  "
Such disappointment can lead to several outcomes, including trying to get this person to change and an increased anger toward the person who is causing the disappointment.This becomes problematic since the fault lies with you for putting such pressure on the person......
"EXPECTATIONS IS THE ROOT OF HEARTACHE".....
Expect what you can,  be aware of the fact that sometimes life throws you a curve ball that doesn't mean you should get afraid of the present situations.... Stand there and face the ball , so that you can make a home run out of it.......just remember  not to make these aspirations so high that they are impractical or unreachable.......

Acceptance is only a thing need to be actively worked for...Things do not work always as we have planned...Its beneficial to realize that how life works rather than becoming frustrated at situations rather than getting disappointed......
"THE BEST PERSON TO EXPECT IS OURSELVES ".......




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